Ignore the Alex Jeffreys Doom Merchants
As it’s Sunday, just a brief post today. Last chance reminder to vote in the Poll before it closes later today and I start making preparations for the first video.
Well, the other Gary (one R version!) has a post everyone should pop over and read. Click on his BlogRoll entry to have a read. It’s titled “Buzzards and Seagulls” and if the title doesn’t intrigue you enough to have a read, I don’t know what will!!
The topic is all to do with the doom merchants (or negative thinkers) who go out of their way to rubbish others rather than focus their efforts on something constructive. At all costs you must ignore them and remain focused on your path.
I mentioned previously, that I am a big advocate and follower of Tony Robbins, the Peak Performance Coach. One of his core philosophies in ensuring your success in any field is the peer group you associate yourself with. If you surround yourself with friends who continually “see the glass as half empty” (pessimistic by nature) then they are hardly going offer to words of encouragement and support. As friends, they won’t mean you harm but will only see the downside of what you are doing and the potential risks. Mix with these people long enough, and in particular discuss your plans with them, and they will gradually chip away at your drive and desire and the seeds of doubt will be sewn in your own mind. This slow trickle of lack of support (or worse) will eventually undermine most people and then you will give up. It is crucial to mix with like minded people else you run the risk of been worn down.
These people are “red-lighters”, and sometimes unknowingly they can hold you back. You need to surround yourselves with “green-lighters”. This is why it is crucial to get involved with a community, or blog, like this where we can all support one another, we all have a common goal and our collective enthusiasm will see us to success. Hope you get the message:
MINDEST is a, no THE, crucial factor in your future success.
Hope you enjoy the rest of the weekend and see you tomorrow.
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Hi Garry,
Well said. Read many Tony Robbins book myself so I know where you are coming from. As the saying goes “birds of a feather flock together”.
It’s so important to surround yourself with like minded people and those that are achieving the results you are looking for. I’m sure we have all been told many times that “you can’t make money on the internet” by those close to us. As you say, it’s not meant in a bad way but peolpe will try and hold you back, not with intent, it’s just human nature.
That’s what’s great about Alex’s coaching and the effort we are all making to help each other. If we need support, it’s there.
Sorry to have gone on a bit,
All the best,
Mark
http://missioninternetmarketing.com
Hi Garry,
Thanks for the nice endorsement on my “BUZZARDS and SEAGULLS” post. Great example of positive social media.
My motivation to do that was twofold:
1 - get people to go there and read it
2 - warn people that there are the critics, doomsayers and naysayers out there.
There are some who are so focussed on bringing the Alex Jeffreys coaching program down that they are doing nothing to improve themselves. What a waste of time. Dumb huh?
My concern is that there may be some watching all this who will be swayed by that garbage. So… the best way to combat this negativity is to overwhelm it with positive comments - which is what we are doing cross-referencing these posts on all the blogs.
Thanks again for your endorsement.
And Mark… I agree with all that you said too!
Regards
Gary Simpson
http://motivationselfesteem.com/talk
There does seem to always be someone around to always trash something. There are of course those malicious folks who get their ego stoked by doing such things that and usually they can be identified by there unreasonable verbage and ignorance of the matter. But also there are some online marketers that use this as a marketing tactic. They play on the apprehension and doubt people have with making decisions by raising questions and introducing fear to get you to click on their site. Then after detailing some basics fear related ‘possibilities’ they offer you ‘another solution’ - theirs. Even the people who bad mouth something that were involved in it are usually the ones who did not get good results because they did not take proper action themselves. Is that someone you want to allow to influence your decisions?
In my experience people who resort to insults and trashing what others choose to do are not trustworthy. It’s the people who don’t insult others or fling insults back that inspire trust. I know I’ve never had the time or desire to participate in anything like that, and ignoring those kinds of people has worked for me every time!
Lori
http://www.everythinghomebiz.com
Hello Garry,
Enjoying your blog very much.
I also am a student of Alex and would be pleased to be added to your list.
The reason that I joined Alex’s coaching group was to be focused and not be distracted by any outside influences whatever or whoever they may be.
My take on this is to stay focused,trust and believe in Alex and his methods. Ignore the doubters and critics. I am sure that if we all do this we will be successful and make money online.
Good luck with your business.
John
http://yourgibbiz.com/
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